I'm plagarizing today...

Work has been a living hell this week... I've been working late hours, leaving the apt at 6 am and getting home at or about 9 pm, so I haven't had much time to post blogs other than "quick stuff"... so, here is something to read and think about. (I hope to have a blog put together from an experience last night...meanwhile...)

HT to Suzanne for this great blog... and poll... definitely a must read for anyone that is in a relationship, marriage or looking to get in to a serious one, keeping one or leaving one. LOL!!!

I have to agree and say that I do enjoy the text messages I receive, or that random quick email during our busy and hectic days... I always have a grand smile when I get a new nickname applied to me as well... (hence
Sugar Cat", "Mexpsychan", "Doodlebug"... heh! )

Little Things

Over the past month I’ve read a huge number of blogs about relationships gone wrong. Some written by women telling the world all about the wrong horrible things men do and how dumb they are. Others written by men accusing women of being needy high maintenance airheads. A couple of the blogs just expressed confusion about the whole thing.

I thought I’d take a different approach. Instead of sitting here telling you all of the things that have gone wrong in my past relationships and beating up on men – and myself – I took a little poll. A few weeks ago I e-mailed 15 men and 15 women. All random. None of the people are on my friends list or subscribe to my blog. I did my best to be sure they didn’t appear on friends lists of those of you who drop by my page on a regular basis. I used the search function on myspace and called up for people who fell in the 25 – 45 age range. I included all sexual orientations, race, etc. I was pretty surprised to get responses...