I LOVED YOU ENOUGH

Some day when my children are old enough to undersand the logic that motivates a mother, I will tell them:

I loved you enough to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home. (And still do at your ages)
I loved you enough to insist that you save your money and buy a bike for yourself even though we could afford to buy one for you.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover that your new best friend was a creep.
I loved you enough to make you take a Milky Way back to the drugstore (with a bit out of it) and tell the clerk, "I stole this yesterday and want to pay for it."
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes.
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment and tears in my eyes. Children must learn that thier parents aren't perfect.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say "no" when I knew you would hate me for it.
Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won something too.

~~ Author Unknown